Loop-holes in a Relationship


“You try to be faithful
And sometimes you're cruel.
You are mine. Then, you leave.
Without you, I can't cope.

And when you take the lead,
I become your footstep.
Your absence leaves a void.
Without you, I can't cope.

You have disturbed my sleep,
You have wrecked my image.
You have set me apart.
Without you, I can't cope.” 
 RumiLove: The Joy That Wounds: The Love Poems of Rumi
I used to believe in Rumi's Definition of love the difference is he defined love for God Almighty which is no doubt pure and divine than love for a human.That was my biggest mistake until reality opened my eyes.I say their should be no rules for love in a relationship but they are obviously.
Generally it implies on Girls only men dnt want any restriction and rules and for girls these are :
 No:1  Loyalty Test  (which is actually their insecurity)

 you cant talk to anyone else in other words of social media interactions Guys generally ask their wife to be or ?... in any case  passwords of their social media accounts to make sure no other guy talks to them.and most important thing they dont give theirs lol.
No:2DONT PUT UR DP (inshort their other Gf's cant track you lol)
Sounds childish?you bet even well educated professional men put these restrictions on their Girls even they are not planning to marry them.Security Concerns are good in this era of cyber crime bt the point to be noted is they make their Display pictures public in contarary.
No:3 Sharing pictures with me so i can show off them to my frnds the stock girls send me)
This is a very sensitive situation dnt take it as a joke .i believe girls should not do that would the guarantee of marriage.most of the cyber crimes are the bases of it this is an endless debate.
These are the some of shareable issues generally happens but the rules are endless.

Let me talk about the loop-holes inshort the multitasking techniques in relationships
these days first and the most common.
No share online status option (only me) in viber,wats app and other Communication apps 
Reason so that the other person in the relationship cant see that u are talking to several at the same time even when they said Goodnight to you.so what you shld do? stop sharing your status too hahaha tit for tat...
Post sharing on social media sites specific to person to person 
Reason if you ask them they will say baby i want to hide you from the world because you are special to me pathetic old excuse BORING!!!..moving on actually they want specific their first choice girls(who dnt give a damn to them)can see the post .So What you should do?build curiousity for them LOL by no commenting on their stuff and not allowing them to see your dp hheehe:P
CEll phone off or number busy
Reasons stated my battery died if they are not picking up my phone was on charging lol in reality they have 2 sims 1 number is off they are busy on the second one
reason stated i was sleeping so i put of number busy option lol totally lame its because they r actually busy with anyone else..incase your numbr is busy or turned of they will straight away"are you cheating on me ?do you have another bf if u dnt love me say it baby be honest lol same goes for men :P
Relationship status hidden you know what i mean heheh Right!!



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